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Kodi n’chiyani chikudzutsa funso lakuti: Kodi kupatukana kungapulumutse banja? Izi ndi zophweka "inde, zikhoza." Funso lovuta kwambiri ndi lakuti “kodi kupatukana kungapulumutse banja?” Yankho la izo ndi "sikuti." M'malo mwake, kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti pafupifupi 50% ya mabanja omwe amapatukana samatha. Amathera m’chisudzulo. Kodi chiŵerengero chimenecho chikuwoneka mokayikitsa mofanana ndi inu ndi chiŵerengero cha maukwati amene amathera pa chiŵerengero cha anthu?
Izi ndi zoona pa chifukwa chimodzi chophweka: kulekana si njira yothetsera vutoli, ndipo kuyenera kuwonedwa ngati "kuyesetsa komaliza," osati poyambira.
Kuchokera ku chondichitikira changa, kupatukana kaŵirikaŵiri kumakhala “mayesero okonzekera chisudzulo.” Ukwati ndi nkhani za ukwati ziyenera kuthetsedwa ndi anthu awiriwa. Kupatukana nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa mpumulo ku zowawa za kulimbana… koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti kusintha kulikonse kukuchitika. Ndikatulutsa dzanja langa mumtsinje wamadzi otentha, ndimamva mpumulo pakuchotsa dzanja langa pakutentha. Izo sizichita kanthu kusintha kutentha kwa madziwo.
Nthawi zambiri, kulekana kumagwira chimodzi mwa zolinga ziwiri:
1) Imalola munthu m'modzi kuyamba njira yotalikirana ndi mnzake. M’mawu ena, ndi theka la sitepe yopita kuchisudzulo.
2) Zimalola anthu onse kuthawa zovuta zomwe ali nazo, koma popanda kusintha kapena kusintha.
Chotero, inde, kulekana kungakhale mbali ya banja kupeza machiritso, koma kokha ngati kugwiritsiridwa ntchito moyenerera.
Nawa malangizo ogwiritsira ntchito kulekana ngati njira yopulumutsira banja:
1) Gwiritsani ntchito kulekana m'malo osiyanasiyana ngati njira yomaliza.
Kupatukana m’nyumba kungakhale koyambira bwinoko. Ikhoza kupereka mtunda wofunikira kuti muyimitse zowawa ndi nkhawa za vuto la ubale.
2) Musanayambe kupatukana, fotokozani momveka bwino za momwe mungakhalire olumikizidwa.
Mutha kumva anthu akunena kuti simuyenera kukhudzana ndi nthawi yopatukana. Choyamba, ngati pali ana okhudzidwa, izi sizingatheke. Chachiwiri, zimapangitsa kuti anthu onse azikhala ndi moyo wawo, pomwe amakhala kuyeserera kwa chisudzulo.
Vuto lenileni muubwenzi ndi kutha. Kusagwirizana kwina sikungathetse izi, koma nthawi zambiri kumawonjezera kusagwirizana.
3) Konzani misonkhano yanthawi zonse kuti mukambirane zinthu zomwe zimachokera ku moyo wolumikizana: ndandanda, ndalama, ndi zina.
Kukhala ndi nthawi yokhazikika yokhudza maziko ndi kuthetsa mavutowo kumachepetsa nkhawa za anthu onse awiri.
4) Khazikitsani nthawi zokhazikika kuti mukhale limodzi - opanda zolankhula za ubale kapena mavuto anu. Mwayi wokha wokhala limodzi mopepuka komanso mopepuka.
Konzani nthawi yachakudya chamasana nthawi zonse, nthawi ya khofi, kuyenda, kapena nthawi zina kuti mukhale limodzi popanda chiyembekezo. Izi zimayamba kuthetsa kusagwirizana komwe kunayambitsa mavuto a m'banja.
5) Dziperekeni nokha momwe mukufuna kuchita bwino.
Maukwati kaŵirikaŵiri amabweretsa kugwa pakukula kwaumwini, ndipo kulekana, ngati wina ali mwadala, kungakhale njira yoyambira kukula kwanu. Zingatanthauze kukumana ndi wothandizira, mphunzitsi, kapena bwenzi lodalirika.
Chofunika kwambiri panthawiyi ndikuti musasokonezedwe ndi kupweteka kwa kupatukana. Yang'anani pa zomwe mungathe kuzilamulira: nokha ndi malangizo anu. Yendani kumbali ya kukula ndi chitukuko. Yendani njira yolumikizirana ndi mnzanu, ngati kuli kotheka.
6) Pewani kuchita zinthu mwachipongwe, mwaukali, mwachidwi, kapena mobwezera.
Osayesa kuphunzitsa phunziro, kapena kuyesa kuyambitsa chidwi. Ino si nthawi yofotokozera mfundo, koma kukhazikitsa mgwirizano ndikukhazikitsanso mgwirizano.
Ngati mwasankha kuchita zinthu mwaukali kapena mobwezera, mosakayikira mumangotsimikizira chifukwa chake mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ayenera kupatukana. Sizidzatsimikizira mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kuti aganizirenso, komanso sizidzaphunzitsa mnzanuyo phunziro lililonse lothandiza - kupatula kutsimikizira kufunika kokhala kutali.
7) Pewani kupempha, kuchonderera, kapena kukakamiza munthuyo kuti abwere kunyumba.
Chigamulo chikapangidwa kupatukana, kulekana kuyenera kuthetsedwa ndi chisankho chogwirizanitsa. Siziyenera kupangidwa mokakamizidwa, kuchita manyazi, kapena kudziimba mlandu.
8) Pewani kugwiritsa ntchito ana ngati chipwirikiti.
Ana adzakhala otaika pazimenezi. Ana ndi maphwando osalakwa omwe alibe chochita ndi ubale wanu, choncho musawagwiritse ntchito ngati chipwirikiti. Mwachidule, ana amafunikira mwayi wopeza makolo onse awiri, popanda kumva kukokedwa kapena kukhala nawo pankhondoyo.
9) Pakulekanitsa kolimbikitsa, sankhani pa nthawi yoyenera.
Kulekanitsa kotseguka kumakhala kovuta kwa onse awiri. “Sindikudziwa mpaka liti” ndi yankho lolimba kumbali zonse ziwiri. Kodi kulekana kumatha bwanji? Nkhani zonse sizidzathetsedwa, ndiye kuti simasewera omaliza. Mwadzidzidzi kudzimva wokonzeka kubwererananso ndikotambasula, chifukwa padzakhala kusafuna kulowanso m'malo omwe anali osagwirizana.
Koma kukhala ndi nthawi (ndipo ndikupangira kuti OSAPOSA 3 miyezi), ndiye kumapeto kwa nthawi imeneyo, mwafika pa nthawi kuthetsa kulekana. Kulekanitsa, ndiye, kupumula kokhazikika, komwe kumakhala ndi mathero osankhidwa.
Ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu sangagwirizane nazo, musalole zimenezo kukhala vuto linanso. Kumbukirani, mungathe kulamulira mapeto anu a mkhalidwewo.
10) Yambani kulekana ndi mapeto mu malingaliro. Yambani ndi kumvetsetsa kuti chifukwa cholekanitsa ndikusunthira kupyola mavuto, kupeza ubale wamphamvu ndi wogwirizana.
Ngakhale sindikugwirizana ndi kulekana, ndikudziwa kuti zimachitika. Choncho, ngati kupatukana sikungalephereke, kumangireni m’njira imene ingapindulitse ubwenzi wanu. Musalole kupatukana kusokoneze ubwenzi wanu.
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